Her First Communion Dress - Best Practices

First Communion is a time of holy sacrament forselect a dress that will fit her properly. Nobody
your child. She has studied for years and is nowneeds to know what the size label says. And
ready. This can be a beautiful time filled withremember that every manufacturer's sizes runs
lasting memories for your family.different from the next. Size number means
We recommend these BEST PRACTICES whennothing; fit means everything. And if she hasn't
planning for her First Communion:begun to mature/slim down and still carries a little
rounded baby belly, DO look at half (or plus) sizes.
1. Keep the focus on the purpose. It is far tooThey are proportioned a little wider but not longer
easy to allow the focus to shift to the dress, theand are purposely made in these sizes for these
party, the gifts. Keep the true meaning foremostsituations. She will look her best when her dress
in everyone's thoughts.fits properly - and she'll be more comfortable too.
2. Shop early. This cannot be emphasized enough.5. Select a veil or headpiece that suits her face
The earlier you shop, the less stress everyone willand hairstyle. This means that you first need to
experience and the more choices you will have.decide how she will wear her hair. Will it be put
The later in the season you shop, the less stylesup? Pulled back? Hairstyle directly affects the type
and sizes will be available to you. Spring is also theof headpiece that will look attractive on her.
busiest season for little girls' dresses and special6. Go easy on the accessories. A lovely necklace
orders can (and often do) take longer thanfrom Grandmother may be the perfect thing! But
expected. Far too many mothers go into panictoo many accessories like a shawl and gloves will
mode because they waited too late. When is thecause her anxiety and she will fidget. It will be
right time to shop? Early January, for sure!necessary to have a warm coat, cape or
3. Be aware of what every body else is wearingsweater in cooler climates, of course, but leave
in her class. Are you in an area where the "littlethese extras with the family so she is free to
bride" look rules supreme? Or is everybody goingfocus on the day.
to be wearing a tea-length dress? Is sleeveless7. Keep the emphasis AWAY from what gifts she
acceptable - and normal? Or is it better to wearwill receive from the family. In fact, receiving gifts
sleeves? You will want to know before shopping.that day can be a complete and delightful surprise
You don't want your daughter to stick out like ato her of you are instead focusing on the
sore thumb on this most precious day. Ask themeaning of the day.
leaders in your Parish.8. Relax and enjoy this day - and be sure to take
4. Measure her and be honest about her size.a LOT of pictures!
Don't get hung up on the size number! Instead,